Why see a sex coach?

No need to be shy. People look in to sex coaching when they feel like;

  • They can’t take control of their sexual selves due to past abuse.

  • They have shame, guilt or embarrassment related to their sex, sexual identity or fantasy

  • They can’t experience orgasm or pleasure

  • Have a trouble accepting their body


Other clients are;

  • Experiencing early ejaculation (premature/early ejaculation)

  • Having erectile issues

  • In a routine with their partner.  Sex feels like a chore rather than an experience.

  • Wanting to take sexual expression to new heights.

  • Struggling with the idea of monogamy, polyamory or kink. figuring out how to navigate differences in libido between partners.

  • Wanting to improve communication with their partners for greater intimacy


I’m here to help you experience pleasure, joy, confidence and fulfillment in your sexual experience.  I know there are barriers, everyone has experienced them.  Working with a coach can help to remove the barriers that are blocking your erotic potential.  I’ve been trained to use the MEBES© model where we look at YOU as a whole person and move forward.

Below you’ll find the sex coaches services and packages that I offer. If you’re on the fence about coaching, book a free consultation or an individual session. If you decide to get a package you can apply the cost of your individual session to a package (within 7 days).


Individual Sessions

 

$130

Single Session

Perfect for first-timers or those needing a tune-up. If you choose to upgrade to a package within 7 days, the session cost will be applied to that package.

$510

Four Session Package

Includes sex coaching and optional cannabis coaching. You’ll receive unlimited email support and 3 free 20-minute phone check-ins between sessions. Session can include standard coaching, cannabis meditations or Brainspotting. Active clients on packages will have access to prerecorded cannabis meditations. New Clients will also receive a free Brainspotting session

$1000

Eight Session Package

As a coach I will tell you that these are my favorite packages. Eight sessions allow us to really examine what is blocking you from your ideal sex life. Each session will equip you will all the tools you need to make lasting changes in your sexual life. Active clients on packages will have access to prerecorded cannabis meditations. As with all packages I will be available to you with unlimited email access and we can schedule 20-mintue phone calls in between session. Session can include standard coaching, cannabis meditations or Brainspotting. New Clients will also receive a free Brainspotting session

Couples Sessions

 

$170

Couples Sessions

Helpful for couples who want to check in, explore a single issue, or test the waters before diving deeper. Upgradeable to a package.

$670

Four Session Package

Includes cannabis coaching if desired. We’ll co-create action plans for both partners. Unlimited email access and optional 20-minute calls between sessions. Active clients on packages will have access to prerecorded cannabis meditations.. New couples will receive 2 free individual Brainspotting Sessions.

$1320

Eight Session Couples Package

This in-depth experience helps partners get to the root of issues and rebuild intimacy. We can alternate between individual and joint sessions. Includes cannabis coaching, shared meditation, email support, and call check-ins. Active clients on packages will have access to prerecorded cannabis meditations. New couples will receive 2 free individual Brainspotting Sessions.

 Not sure which package to book?

Why not book a free consultation and we can discuss what might be right for you

Still have questions? Fell free to read over the FAQ section. If you don’t see your question then click ask a sex coach and ask me directly.

  • No—but it can be transformational. Coaching focuses on the present and future. If unresolved trauma is interfering, we can discuss collaborating with or referring to a therapist.

  • Therapy often heals the past. Coaching looks at how the past affects your present, and then moves you toward your desired future. Coaching is action-oriented and includes work outside of sessions.

  • It can. Sex coaching can get the wheels spinning, but you’re the one who has steer the car. We will discuss ways that you can create change and that change will be dependent on you. The coaching relationship is collaborative. Sometimes our work will be light and easy, other times it could be difficult or uncomfortable, but if you commit to the process and work with me, I will walk with you every step of the way

  • It varies. Coaching may include journaling, mindful masturbation, cannabis education, breathwork, or movement, body coaching or Brainspotting. Everything is personalized and consensual. Rest assured, that while the exercises can take you out of your comfort zone, you will be safe.

  • We explore your Endocannabinoid System and use cannabis (THC, CBD, or other cannabinoids) intentionally to support your healing or sexual goals. It’s not about getting high—it’s about getting in tune.

  • You might be surprised, but no. Of course, if we are introducing THC into your body then yes, you can expect to feel the psychoactive effects. However, many of my clients use the other cannabinoids found in cannabis, CBD, CBG, etc. We go away from the idea of “strains” and look at chemovars. Some chemovars will have THC, some will have CBD. We choose chemovars based on your specific needs and goals.

  • No. I’ll guide you in finding products legally and intentionally. I work with what’s accessible and appropriate for your needs.

  • Of course! Sex coaching can be done from anywhere in the world. However, cannabis coaching is only available for clients living in a state where cannabis is legal. I personally believe this plant is beneficial, but I still uphold the law. If you are NOT living in a state where cannabis is legal then I will not be able to do cannabis coaching with you. Luckily your package has many other tools to help you get to where you want to be.

  • Nope, and that is the really great part. Some clients might not feel comfortable coming to my office and that’s okay, we can use zoom. I can see clients outside of Colorado via zoom as well. I’ve gone with clients to find sex toys, underwear, and I’ve even been their emotional support at sex clubs. Maybe you feel more comfortable getting coaching in your home. If you are in a location that is reasonably close to me, then I will happily come to you. Personally, I love this aspect of my job. It allows us to really coach in the wild.

  • There are so many concerns that can be addressed with sex coaching. Here are the most popular topics, but remember; we are not limited, if it’s on your mind we can talk about it and if we are match then we can work together.

    Low desire, high desire, kink, fetish, early ejaculation, erectile concerns, body image issues, desire for advanced pleasure, sexual inhibitions, difficulty having an orgasm, fantasy and reality, STI navigation, sexuality concerns, gender expression and concerns.

  • I am NOT bound to any walk of life. My primary skillset is in male sexual concerns (any orientation), fantasy and kink, but all people and concerns are welcome to work with me. My clients can be male, female, trans, non-binary and any sexuality.

  • Great question, and in theory you can, however, it would not be with me. During sex coaching I’m holding space for you and you will be disclosing many personal things. I sometimes do recommend for my coaching clients to get a massage. Masters and Johnson used a similar model. In order to ethically hold up my work I do NOT offer sex coaching and massage therapy to a client at the same time. I do have a network of providers, both massage therapists and coaches and I can refer you out.

  • Payment is processed after your appointment. You will receive an invoice via email that can be paid by any major credit card. You also have the option to pay cash. At this time, I do not take insurance.

  • Moving your session within 24 hours can be tricky and I will do my best to accommodate you, but sessions canceled the day of will have to be charged. If you cancel with more than 24 hours’ notice, there is no charge. We can get creative though, can’t make it to see me? Let’s zoom!

  • I will do my best to honor your time, but once your appointment is scheduled it is locked in. If I have clients after, then I can't give you back your time.

  • Yes, you can! I created a special 30 minute cannabis consulting session for established coaching clients living in CO. We can check in about your sexual health, check in about how cannabis is helping you, and you even get a free 1 ounce oil when you leave.